I wrote the following to a group of friends and below is one of the responses I received. This lady has been my mentor for over seven years now. I've never met her in person, but she has blessed me over and over again. Some of her words of wisdom are printed out and saved in my homeschool binder, the one I open most days of our school year. Her words are there for my quick reference on the days I need reassurance that all will be o.k. and I just need to remember what is important, what really matters. I aspire to be gentle and wise, as she is. Here's a bit of our conversation:
I never seem to finish any Science that we start. And I really think it's because I just don't have a whole lot of interest in science other than natural science. It takes too many of my brain cells right now, isn't that horrible to admit?!
Thank you for admitting that you really don't like science except for natural sciences. I'm that way too, that's why generally for the grade school years, we did nature journals and observations. (did you guess I'd say this?) You can find Jody at Homemade Living where I found her 7 years ago. I remember reading there and it being like a huge breath of fresh air. I copied off everything in case for some reason I couldn't get to her website again. Her words have shaped our homeschool more than anything else. I take her book recommendations seriously! And I now recommend those same life changing books to other moms. Jody also has a blog about her ranch life at Gumbo Lily. |
4 comments:
It's truly been a joy sharing with you these past 7 or 8 years. You inspire me too, Bessie, and I love hearing about the special interests each of your children has.
Isn't it something how smart your children are with a slower, more natural way of learning? It says a lot.
Happy Days Ahead!
Jody
Jody,
Thanks so much for your kind words. You are always such an encouragement!
Love,
Bessie
Can I add one more thing? I have learned that I needed to enjoy my children more and teach them less...what I mean is..in a blink of an eye they are gone and in college. It is such a sad and happy time all in one.
When my kids needed to know something thats when they learned it. My daughter loved biology but I wish we had spent less time on that and more time doing things together because she knew everything she needed when she entered school and if she was in doubt she would find the answer or call me from school and we would go over it again....I guess what I am saying is I wish I could do those days over and spend more time talking and laughing and listening to books together....JMHO. Thanks for listening. Dianntha
Thank you, Dianntha, for the advice/comment! I will take it to heart. My oldest will be 12 in a few days and he's now tall enough for me to look him straight in the eye. I sometimes have almost a sense of panic at how fast time is going by! I do realize these are precious days, but probably not like you "know". I try to pay close attention to my friends with older children. I value their opinions. Thanks for taking the time to share your thoughts with me!
Bessie
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